How to Maintain Mental Wellbeing During the Festive Season

Author: Dr Colin Preece, Head of Mental Health, Teladoc Health UK

How to Maintain Mental Wellbeing During the Festive Season

The festive season, especially around Christmas, is often portrayed as a time of joy, warmth, and celebration. But for many, it can also bring about feelings of stress, anxiety, loneliness, or emotional overwhelm. Balancing your mental wellbeing during the holidays is essential to making the most of this special time.

Here are practical tips to help you protect your mental health at Christmas and navigate the season with greater calm, joy, and resilience.

1. Set Realistic Expectations

It’s easy to fall into the trap of aiming for a “perfect” Christmas—but perfection is rarely achievable and often unnecessary.

  • Let go of unrealistic standards for decorations, gifts, or gatherings.

  • Accept that some plans may change, and that’s okay.

2. Plan and Prioritise Your Festive Tasks

A little organisation can go a long way.

  • Make a manageable to-do list and set realistic goals for shopping, socialising, and preparation.

  • Focus on what matters most to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

3. Manage Your Time Effectively

Time is one of your most valuable resources during the holidays.

  • Allocate time for rest and self-care activities.

  • Avoid overcommitting to social events or obligations.

4. Budget Mindfully

Financial stress is a common issue during the holidays.

  • Set a spending limit and stick to it.

  • Remember: meaningful gifts don’t need to be expensive to show love or appreciation.

5. Maintain Healthy Boundaries

Christmas often involves juggling different expectations from family and friends.

  • Learn to say ‘no’ when your energy is stretched.

  • Communicate your boundaries and needs with honesty and kindness.

6. Prioritise Self-Care

Self-care is crucial to maintaining mental wellbeing during the festive season.

  • Continue with your regular routines, such as exercise, mindfulness, or journaling.

  • Get enough sleep, eat mindfully, and avoid excessive drinking or snacking.

7. Stay Connected with Loved Ones

Nurture your relationships during the holiday season.

  • Make time for people who uplift and support you.

  • Embrace the true meaning of Christmas—connection, compassion, and love.

8. Honour Traditions (or Create New Ones)

Traditions can bring comfort, nostalgia, and togetherness.

  • Revisit meaningful rituals from your childhood or culture.

  • Don’t be afraid to start new ones that align with your current lifestyle and values.

9. Acknowledge Grief and Emotions

The holidays can amplify feelings of loss or sadness.

  • Give yourself (and others) permission to grieve or feel differently this year.

  • Reach out to someone who may be struggling or experiencing Christmas alone.

10. Practice Gratitude Daily

Gratitude is a powerful tool for improving mood and reducing stress.

  • Reflect on what you’re thankful for each day.

  • Focus on the people, experiences, and simple moments that bring you joy.

11. Simplify Where You Can

A simpler Christmas often leads to a more joyful one.

  • Cut down on over-the-top plans, extravagant meals, or elaborate decorations.

  • Prioritise meaningful interactions over material elements.

12. Give Back and Support Others

Helping others can boost your own emotional wellbeing.

  • Volunteer your time, donate to a charity, or offer kindness to someone in need.

  • Acts of generosity create a deeper sense of connection and purpose.

Final Thoughts on Christmas Mental Health

While the festive period can be magical, it’s completely normal to experience mixed emotions. Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or simply tired, remember that you’re not alone—and it’s okay to ask for help.

If you’re struggling with your mental health over Christmas, consider speaking to a mental health professional. Support is available, and reaching out can be the most powerful step toward healing and peace.

 

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